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Be present for the journey…

When it comes to matters of the heart I am very guarded. Some refer to it as a Wall, others refer to it as rigid boundaries. Most refer to it as being a cold-hearted bitch… and I own that. For a long time I was fine with that. If I keep everyone away from me, no one can hurt me. Even though I know that if I do not let people in, no one can love me either. No one can see who I really am behind the mask I put on to appear tough and unbothered. Continue reading “Be present for the journey…”

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Is love enough?

Many of us idealize love like its some lofty remedy for all of life’s problems. Our movies and our stories and our history all celebrate it as life’s ultimate goal, the final solution for all of our pain and struggle. And because we idealize love, we overemphasize it. As a result, our relationships pay a price. Continue reading “Is love enough?”