“Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.”
– Hermann Hesse
I guess this is something I still have to figure out. See I’ve always been the type to wear my heart on my sleeve. I don’t hide my feeling or emotions, because what’s the point? This also makes me grow attached to someone really quickly (although I am quite picky about whom I let into my life)… but growing attached is not a good thing, because in my experience it usually ends in disappointment.
We desire to hold on to what we value and we suffer when life’s inevitable process of change separates us from those things.
Sometimes it happens that the people and things we get attached to is not meant to be in our lives. If something is not meant to be in your life you can’t keep it… you need to let it go.
Life is a lot like a puzzle, everything, every moment, every person in your life is a piece of the puzzle that would complete your picture in the end. The sad part is that we sometimes find a piece that we really really like and we want to hold on the that piece, but we can’t…
You can’t force a piece that does not fit. That is someone else’s piece and you need to let that one go, in order to find your piece; The one that fits perfectly.